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Our Life Matrix, Part 3/3


What is held in our Life Matrix governs everything we think, say, and do, which influences what we invite into our life and how our life and relationships play out. In parts 1 and 2 I discussed both Positive and Negative Life Matrixes; how each one shows up in our life, and how the attitudes they hold and the behaviors that are derived from them affect not only our life, but also our relationships. Our emotional state affects our Life Matrix. It defines who we are now being, which influences our current life experiences. It also affects our future. Our emotional state is played out through our Unconscious Influences,*  which can have a positive or negative affect on our life. Our current emotional state and our Unconscious Influences play off each other. One affects the others. And as these play out, they in turn affect our Life Matrix. And it is the quality of our Life Matrix that dictates our present, and future life experiences. See  here  for Part 1.  here for Part 2 It has only been in the last century or so that psychologists have been able to connect the dots between our Unconscious Influences and how we experience life. We often feel that we do not experience enough love in our lives; however, our capacity to truly feel love and to love others is in direct relationship to what is held in our Life Matrix. Working to create a positive Life Matrix creates self-love and brings harmony and love into our life. Whether from our conscious or unconscious minds, every thought, word, belief, attitude, and action emits a vibration. These create our life experiences: experiences we want, those we don't want, and they are what bring harmony into our life and loving people into our sphere. This article is based on my writings. See below for more information on this new release, and my 1st book To become the cause of our experiences and the creator of our realities—instead of at the effect of negative Unconscious Influences, we must be cognizant of the vibrations we are emitting. The conscious and unconscious beliefs and life philosophies within our Life Matrix govern everything we think, say, and do and thereby what we invite into our life. The lens through which we view others and the world around us is how the world will show up for us. We become what we think we are, and we create based on what is held in our Life Matrix. So, ensuring our Life Matrix has a clear lens and holds positive vibrations is what will bring us positive life experiences and harmony with those around us. ~  Rosemary McCarthy© November 29, 2019. To receive my articles as soon as posted, follow my FB page Here   OR   Here  to sign-up my Free Monthly Publication See 1) here for “Why We Are the Way We Are”  and    2) here for  “Your Journey to Peace, Bridging the Gap Between Religion, Spirituality, Psychology, and Science…” Both are available in print and e-book from Amazon. See here  for this [...]

Our Life Matrix, Part 3/32019-11-29T18:19:47+00:00

Our Life Matrix, Part 2/3


Our Life Matrix predisposes us to deal with life, others, issues, and situations by responding calmly, lovingly, and with attitudes that unify and uplift, or, by reacting aggressively with attitudes that divide and create conflict. We may also deal with life in overly-passive ways of reacting that usually do not create immediate outer conflicts, but as our emotions and true feelings remain buried, our inner frustration increases. And these eventually surface - and most often in very unproductive ways. Link for Part 1 here A Positive Life Matrix Living under the influence of a positive Life Matrix, we may embody optimism, confidence, and hopefulness. We may feel lucky, be fearless, as well as be accepting of others since a positive outlook and our own self-confidence cause us to be non-judgmental. We could sometimes succumb to arrogance, impatience, or single-mindedness as our personality dictates, but emotional reactions will generally be composed. Most of our dealings with others will likely be propelled by responses instead of reactions. And as our general outlook is positive, we will quickly return to positive attitudes should we fall into negative ones. A positive Life Matrix may temporarily shift to a negative one, but we are usually pulled back as our underlying inner belief system holds a positive approach to life. This article is based on my writings                                 See below for more information on these, and my upcoming  books The same holds true for a negative Life Matrix. We may have times where we approaching life or situations with positivity, but we generally default to the negative. A negative Life Matrix can be shifted more permanently to the positive, albeit with a sincere and conscious effort. A Negative Life Matrix If we are living under the influence of a negative Life Matrix, we are often needy. We may tend to be pessimistic, hesitant, doubtful, and feel disadvantaged. As these attitudes do not invite in desired results we are often frustrated. We blame others for our failures. We may act with aggression, timidity, or passive-aggressiveness, or, vacillate between these ways of dealing with our frustrations. When we do evoke positive feelings they are usually undermined, as our negative heart beliefs eventually pull us back under their influence. We may hold a volatile emotional component and will be overtly reactive—instead of being responsive to situations and taking them at face value and without making it all about us and our neediness and/or emotions. Or, we may respond with seeming passivity, but are internalizing our angers or frustrations keeping our inner world in turmoil. This becomes a vicious cycle, as inner turmoil invites in more of the same. Our emotional state is very important because it defines who we are now being, which influences what our future holds. In next week’s post I will discuss how what is held in our Life Matrix governs everything we think, say, and do, which influences what we invite into [...]

Our Life Matrix, Part 2/32020-06-10T15:59:03+00:00


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