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What Would Love Do? February 2023, Newsletter #56

2023-02-21T05:23:54+00:00

What Would Love Do? About Ourselves – and Regarding Others This text is from my February 2023 Newsletter Message. Sign Up to Receive Future Ones or Read Past Ones.  🔶How we perceive and internalize what happens to us – dictates how we will feel afterwards 🔶How we respond to disappointments, misunderstandings, and others’ unwanted or aggressive attitudes or behaviors – dictates the atmosphere afterwards 🔶How we deal with unexpected or unwanted situations – dictates how satisfactorily they will be resolved And it Is How Much Love We Have for Ourselves that dictates how we perceive and internalize, how we respond, how we deal with situations – and how much we can express love to others – and out into the world. Self-Love Self-love means that we are accepting, understanding, compassionate, and forgiving to ourselves – we are basically kind to ourselves. When we come from a place of love, we think, speak, act, and react from a place of love – and empowerment. Focusing on the positive aspects of ourselves and others is uplifting and empowering. Focusing on the negative aspects of ourselves and others is deflating and disempowering.  And it is from this place of empowerment that we can be accepting, understanding, compassionate, and forgiving to others – we can basically be kind to those around us. Ensure Your Thoughts, Words, and Reactions Align with Self-Love Self-love requires being conscious and aware of what you are letting into your mind and life – and what you are putting out into the world. When we think, speak, react, and act unconsciously, we are at the beck call of Unconscious Influences. Based on unresolved past hurts and pains that we project into the present, these influences cause us to feel, react, and behave in habitual and protective ways that have no bearing on what is currently happening. This unconscious way of dealing with life and others causes unwarranted anger, hurt feelings, misunderstandings, and conflicts. To get to a place of loving yourself, your thoughts, words, reactions, and behaviors must align with, 🔶The way you want to feel, 🔶 How you want life to show up, and 🔶The kind of relationships you want to have. If you want to feel love in your life and have peace around you, you must come from a place of love – and extend Love’s Qualities to those around you. If your thoughts, words, reactions, and behaviors do not align with what you want, you have to exchange them with loving, compassionate, and forgiving ones – rather than berating yourself, complaining about a situation, or criticizing or blaming others. This is vital because how we think about ourselves and how we deal with others and situations dictates what shows up in our life and affects the quality of our relationships. Replacing negative thinking requires consciously training our minds to shift to positive thoughts about ourselves and others, and hopeful thoughts about the future. And replacing is really re-programming our habitual ways of approaching life. This article [...]

What Would Love Do? February 2023, Newsletter #562023-02-21T05:23:54+00:00

💕 Saying “I Love You” – December 2022 Newsletter Message

2023-02-03T22:20:29+00:00

This is from my December Monthly Newsletter Message. 💕💕💕💕💕 February's Message will be " "What Would Love Do." Sign-up to Receive it. You Can Read Past Ones there too. The words I love you are very powerful. They touch the heart of the recipient. However, not everyone can say the words. They may feel love for the other, but cannot bring themselves to express it verbally. Its as if the words are stuck in their throat. Saying I love you is often learned from our birth family as it may have been normal to regularly say the words. And even for those who grew up in a family where saying I love you wasn’t the norm, we may still be able to verbally express love later in life – if we have a strong enough heart connection. The stronger our heart connection, the more we can feel love in our hearts and come from a place of love, and the easier it is to express love – in all its ways, including verbally. The More Love We Feel in Our Hearts, the Easier it Is For Us to Express Love – Including Words The purest form of saying I love you comes from our heart-space and being unafraid to be vulnerable. Saying I love you makes us vulnerable because we are opening our hearts – and the other may not reciprocate the love we are expressing. But the purest form of expressing love to another requires no reciprocation. However, most of us get hurt feelings or confused if another does not reciprocate our expressions of love. Sometimes they may not feel it, but most likely, the other has not returned the feelings because they cannot. Still, even if it feels awkward to say the words or it makes you feel uncomfortable or vulnerable, uttering them will benefit you greatly. Our Words Are Powerful. They Are Like Mantras Mantras are valuable because they anchor the meaning of the words into our being – into our heart-space. The more often we make an effort to connect to or express love, the more we connect to our heart-space. And the more we connect to our heart-space, the easier it is to express love – in all its forms. (See my blog post The Qualities of Love) Words are most powerful when felt deeply in our hearts. But even words whispered to ourselves or forced words voiced have benefits – because we are making an effort. The “fake it till you make it” concept has value. So, if you are uncomfortable saying I love you to others, there are many ways to get the energy of it in you – so that you can override any blocks to verbally expressing your love. This - and my February message are excerpts from my upcoming book, Relationship Intelligence ... – due out later this Winter. See my Published and Upcoming Books Practice saying the words when alone – and repeat them many times, 💕Out loud to [...]

💕 Saying “I Love You” – December 2022 Newsletter Message2023-02-03T22:20:29+00:00

Ghostwriter: for Books, Memoirs, Bios, Articles, Blog Posts, Newsletters

2023-03-01T04:20:17+00:00

As a Ghostwriter, I can serve you in many ways. And whatever the project  I will ensure your message or communication has the perfect combination of Heart, Smarts, and Integrity – as appropriate to the piece. 1)I Can Write, 0r Co-Write with You, Your Book, Memoir, or Autobiography – from whatever stage it is in – and so it will sound like you. (More details below) 2) I Can Write, or Co-Write with You, the Articles, Blog Posts, Newsletter Messages  – or anything else you need help writing to support your product or service, or to get your message out into the world – in the tone and rhythm appropriate to the project.  (More details below) 🔶🔶🔶🔶🔶 Whatever the project, my aim is to write what you want to share in a way that reflects your intention – be it informative or heartfelt. You will think to yourself, "that is exactly what I wanted to say and how I wanted it to sound."  To get your message across to your intended audience in a way that piques their interest, keeps them engaged, and draws them into your world, I will craft, edit, and weave words together that speak to their hearts, needs, or interest – depending on your intentions and the message. And I will do so with a sense of integrity. (My personal writing is of a spiritual nature, so I can only write with a sense of integrity😊) 🔶🔶🔶🔶🔶 1)Write 0r Co-Write Your Book, Memoir, or Autobiography – from whichever stage it is in. (See below for more details on How I go about writing your bio, memoir, articles ... etc..) Whether you simply have a idea of where you want to go, or you already have notes or files, I will work with you until the manuscript is completed – and Publisher Ready. Whatever the project, my goal will be to: 🔶Write or Co-write Your Bio, Memoir, or Autobiography – that breathes of your life 🔶Write or Co-write the Manuscript that is bursting to come forth from you that you will be proud of – and that weaves together your ideas and insights in a way that educates, intrigues, or enthralls your readers. I will craft a smart, honest, and interesting manuscript – that hits all the right notes and tones and that shows you – or your subject in its best light.   I will start with, 🔶Our Discussions – for me to get a feel of what your intentions are with the piece and of your intended audience 🔶Interviews – needed if you are still in the idea stage or only have a few rough notes 🔶Create chapter titles – and present them to you 🔶Create headings – after we have confirmed chapter titles 🔶Research anything that needs clarification or checking on such as facts, stats, or find necessary citations, etc. 🔶Collate it all and put it together in the most effective way and with the appropriate tone to get your intended message across 🔶Write the 1st draft – ensuring the tone and approach is what you want, 0r [...]

Ghostwriter: for Books, Memoirs, Bios, Articles, Blog Posts, Newsletters2023-03-01T04:20:17+00:00

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