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What Would Love Do? February 2023, Newsletter #56

2024-03-11T01:17:02+00:00

What Would Love Do? About Ourselves – and Regarding Others This text is from my February 2023 Newsletter Message. Sign Up to Receive Future Ones or Read Past Ones.  ?How we perceive and internalize what happens to us –detroit lions jersey OSU Jerseys Florida state seminars jerseys custom made football jerseys OSU Jerseys fsu football jersey fsu football jersey Ohio State Team Jersey detroit lions jersey asu jersey micah parsons jersey Iowa State Football Uniforms custom football jerseys brock bowers jersey 49ers jersey dictates how we will feel afterwards ?How we respond to disappointments, misunderstandings, and others’ unwanted or aggressive attitudes or behaviors – dictates the atmosphere afterwards ?How we deal with unexpected or unwanted situations – dictates how satisfactorily they will be resolved And it Is How Much Love We Have for Ourselves that dictates how we perceive and internalize, how we respond, how we deal with situations – and how much we can express love to others – and out into the world. Self-Love Self-love means that we are accepting, understanding, compassionate, and forgiving to ourselves – we are basically kind to ourselves. When we come from a place of love, we think, speak, act, and react from a place of love – and empowerment. Focusing on the positive aspects of ourselves and others is uplifting and empowering. Focusing on the negative aspects of ourselves and others is deflating and disempowering.  And it is from this place of empowerment that we can be accepting, understanding, compassionate, and forgiving to others – we can basically be kind to those around us. Ensure Your Thoughts, Words, and Reactions Align with Self-Love Self-love requires being conscious and aware of what you are letting into your mind and life – and what you are putting out into the world. When we think, speak, react, and act unconsciously, we are at the beck call of Unconscious Influences. Based on unresolved past hurts and pains that we project into the present, these influences cause us to feel, react, and behave in habitual and protective ways that have no bearing on what is currently happening. This unconscious way of dealing with life and others causes unwarranted anger, hurt feelings, misunderstandings, and conflicts. To get to a place of loving yourself, your thoughts, words, reactions, and behaviors must align with, ?The way you want to feel, ? How you want life to show up, and ?The kind of relationships you want to have. If you want to feel love in your life and have peace around you, you must come from a place of love – and extend Love’s Qualities to those around you. If your thoughts, words, reactions, and behaviors do not align with what you want, you have to exchange them with loving, compassionate, and forgiving ones – rather than berating yourself, complaining about a situation, or criticizing or blaming others. This is vital because how we think about ourselves and how we deal with others and situations dictates what shows up in our [...]

What Would Love Do? February 2023, Newsletter #562024-03-11T01:17:02+00:00

? Saying “I Love You” – December 2022 Newsletter Message

2023-02-03T22:20:29+00:00

This is from my December Monthly Newsletter Message. ????? February's Message will be " "What Would Love Do." Sign-up to Receive it. You Can Read Past Ones there too. The words I love you are very powerful. They touch the heart of the recipient. However, not everyone can say the words. They may feel love for the other, but cannot bring themselves to express it verbally. Its as if the words are stuck in their throat. Saying I love you is often learned from our birth family as it may have been normal to regularly say the words. And even for those who grew up in a family where saying I love you wasn’t the norm, we may still be able to verbally express love later in life – if we have a strong enough heart connection. The stronger our heart connection, the more we can feel love in our hearts and come from a place of love, and the easier it is to express love – in all its ways, including verbally. The More Love We Feel in Our Hearts, the Easier it Is For Us to Express Love – Including Words The purest form of saying I love you comes from our heart-space and being unafraid to be vulnerable. Saying I love you makes us vulnerable because we are opening our hearts – and the other may not reciprocate the love we are expressing. But the purest form of expressing love to another requires no reciprocation. However, most of us get hurt feelings or confused if another does not reciprocate our expressions of love. Sometimes they may not feel it, but most likely, the other has not returned the feelings because they cannot. Still, even if it feels awkward to say the words or it makes you feel uncomfortable or vulnerable, uttering them will benefit you greatly. Our Words Are Powerful. They Are Like Mantras Mantras are valuable because they anchor the meaning of the words into our being – into our heart-space. The more often we make an effort to connect to or express love, the more we connect to our heart-space. And the more we connect to our heart-space, the easier it is to express love – in all its forms. (See my blog post The Qualities of Love) Words are most powerful when felt deeply in our hearts. But even words whispered to ourselves or forced words voiced have benefits – because we are making an effort. The “fake it till you make it” concept has value. So, if you are uncomfortable saying I love you to others, there are many ways to get the energy of it in you – so that you can override any blocks to verbally expressing your love. This - and my February message are excerpts from my upcoming book, Relationship Intelligence ... – due out later this Winter. See my Published and Upcoming Books Practice saying the words when alone – and repeat them many times, ?Out loud to [...]

? Saying “I Love You” – December 2022 Newsletter Message2023-02-03T22:20:29+00:00

Ghostwriter / Co-Writer for Your Book Idea, Memoir, Autobiography, or Passion Project

2023-07-10T20:33:28+00:00

Whatever your project, as a Ghostwriter/Co-Writer ... ... I will ensure the end product I present to you has the perfect combination of Heart, Smarts, and Integrity  as appropriate to the piece – and that it Sounds Like You. I Can Write, 0r Co-Write with You, Your Memoir, Autobiography, Book Idea, or Passion Project ... ... from whatever stage it is in*– and ensure it sounds Just Like You.   🔶🔶🔶🔶🔶 I will write what you want to share in a way that reflects your intention – be it informative or heartfelt. And, I will find your voice. You will think to yourself, "that is exactly what I wanted to say and how I wanted it to sound ..."  ... and I will do so with a sense of integrity. (My personal writing is of a spiritual nature, so I can only write with a sense of integrity😊) 🔶🔶🔶🔶🔶 Hello🙋‍♀️, my name is Rosemary McCarthy and I am a Writer, Published Author, and Ghostwriter. My Books So, whether you are at the idea stage, you already have notes and files, or you simply want some guidance on what you have written, I will work with you until your manuscript is completed – and Publisher Ready –  no matter what stage it is in now🙂 *For my 2 published books I came up with the ideas, and wrote, segmented and created the chapter titles and headings (+ over 300 notations on my 1st book) – all from my years of gathering information on scraps of paper, filled copybooks, and dozens of files of information. Whatever your project, my goal will be to: 🔶Write or Co-write Your Memoir or Autobiography – that breathes of your life 🔶Write or Co-write the Manuscript that is bursting to come forth from you that you will be proud of – and that weaves together your ideas and insights in a way that educates, intrigues, or enthralls your readers. 🔶Write or Co-write with you the Passions Project that is in your heart to share with the world. I will craft a smart, honest, and interesting manuscript – that hits all the right notes and tones and that shows you – or your subject in its best light.   I will start with, 🔶Our Discussions – for me to get a feel of what your intentions are with the piece and of your intended audience 🔶Interviews – if needed – if you are still in the idea stage or only have a few rough notes 🔶Create chapter titles – and present them to you 🔶Create headings – after we have confirmed chapter titles 🔶Research anything that needs clarification or checking on such as facts, stats, or find necessary citations, etc. 🔶Collate it all and put it together in the most effective way and with the appropriate tone to get your intended message across 🔶Write the 1st draft – ensuring the tone and approach is what you want, 0r is needed to ensure your success – and that it speaks to your intended audience 🔶Create the 2nd [...]

Ghostwriter / Co-Writer for Your Book Idea, Memoir, Autobiography, or Passion Project2023-07-10T20:33:28+00:00

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